Intersection: I reveal what it is I do

холови гарнитуриYou never know where ideas and help are going to come from or when. Yesterday I paused from working and found two posts that helped me discover something I’d been looking for a long time. What was I looking for? What it is I do.

For me the most painful, almost unbearable kind of writing is biography. I don’t mean a book about me. I mean short bios on blogs, social media, resumes and so on.

A friend of mine on the west coast, Tzaddi, had a post yesterday, Common Threads, and she echoes what always bothers me. We insist on niches. The more specific the better. We’re in a world crazy for modifiers.

It’s not enough to be a writer (or designer, or musician, or fill-in-the-blank). What kind of writer are you?

There are definitely good reasons for asking such questions. The problem, however, is that they are limiting. If I’m an SEO writer, the implication is that I am not a radio copyrighter. If I’m known as WordPress designer, the implication is that I don’t design non-WordPress sites.

Our modifiers box us in and this is what I’ve always resisted. Boxes are boring. And as far as writing goes, I truly believe that if you are a writer you can write anything. You may have to get up to speed on some style aspects, but you can write it.

So what Tzaddi wrote really resonated with me. But her post was about common threads in her work. She discovered her clients, who all seem very different, had something in common and it was there she discovered what Tyler Tervooren talks about on his Advanced Riskology site.

He has a post titled, What’s your secret mission? I read his post and shortly after read Tzaddi’s and later lines of thought intersected and I suddenly knew my secret mission.

When I first read Tyler’s post I didn’t think I had what he refers to as a secret mission. It seemed very much like, “What do you do?” To that I’ve only ever been able to answer, “I write.”

But later I started thinking in terms of common threads. Were there any in the different things I do all day, in my various jobs, my posts … in what I do when I do what I do. I think there is and that is because those two posts I’ve referred to intersected. I realized there is something I’m always trying to do.

My secret mission, which is really not so secret (though I guess it was to me for a long time) is this:

Help people communicate with clarity, integrity, humanity and respect.

It’s that simple. That’s what I do.

(By the way, I also believe that is the way you communicate effectively.)

About Bill Wren

Writer, editor, social media practitioner and observer of how and where people connect and engage online.
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  • http://twitter.com/tzaddi Tzaddi Gordon

    I’m so glad my post sparked something for you, and really thankful that you posted this Intersection. I appreciate the “Secret Mission” concept. Lately I’ve been asked a few times about my “Superpower”. I have a hard time answering that one, I think in part because part of my brain goes “what’s so special or super about that?”. But a Secret Mission, yeah, I can totally get into having a secret mission :D

  • http://writelife.net/ Bill Wren – Writelife

    I agree. I have a hard time with “my superpower.” But secret mission? Oh yes. I like that.

  • http://www.internet-bard.com KatFrench

    I think it’s interesting how you’ve pulled those common threads together to figure out your secret mission, Bill. And it’s a very humane, very necessary mission.

    For me, I tend to think of it in terms of vocation, which is why I’ve sort of taken the whole “internet bard” thing and run with it. For me, it was about a single vivid image with lots of implications that tied everything together. For me, “bard” implies “renaissance woman,” “jack of all trades” “creative” “stories” “humor” and “traveler”–all things that feel very central to the character that is me, moving through the epic tale that is life. :-)

  • Anonymous

    I like “internet bard” and all the associations you make. I liked the “secret mission” idea because there is some fun in the idea (at least for me). But Tzaddi’s post got me thinking in terms of threads and then I understood that what I’m usually trying to do is what I put down as my mission. I’m not always successful at it, but that’s how it goes.

    I still have to think about it more. The “Help people communicate …” thing is accurate but it also sounds a bit earnest. I’d like it to have some suggestion of humour since that is also a very common thread in what I do. :)

  • http://www.theemotionmachine.com Steven

    “Helping people laugh their way to self-actualization.”

    I don’t know…I kinda like the sound of it. Just throwing out ideas. :)

  • Anonymous

    Good idea! I kinda like the sound of it too. :)

  • http://twitter.com/TheGirlPie GirlPie

    Glad to find your post via @Tzaddi, and to find a new expression for “Super Power” (which I like, but some of my clients don’t) in “Secret Mission.” I’m grateful that I’ve always worked at a version of my own super power, which a fabulous client-turned-friend tagged when she called me “Translator Girl” — I translate what people mean to say/write into what others need to hear/read.

    Being TRANSLATOR GIRL is the intersection of all my days alive,
    the common thread to my varied happinesses,
    and my little way of being useful.
    And I rock at it ~ !

    Thanks for pointing me to Advanced Riskology, too. Keep up the good works ~

    ~GirlPie

  • http://writelife.net/ Bill Wren

    And thank you! I really like that, “I translate what people mean to say/write into what others need to hear/read.” Great way to put it!